Bianca Nwuye warlord vs Sister Obiano; No go dey do pass yourself.

Yesterday, news outlets went agog with the story of the brain resetting farewell slap Bianca gave Obiano's wife

Trust social media to make a feast when the right ingredients are presented before it

I love myself the way I am, doing otherwise will mean I'm not being my true self. I cannot change for anybody, you either love me or leave me. Really? Are you really sure?

There's a saying that if a child washes his hands well, he'd dine with kings

You want to be in the public space in whatever capacity, Sir/Ma, you'd be held to a higher standard whether you like it or not

As you progress, certain behavioural standards are expected of you. From your looks, to your words and actions irrespective of the circumstances or provocation 

An outgoing Governor's wife looked another woman in the eyes and called her 'ashawo' in front of the public, during your successor's swearing-in ceremony, right after walking to where the woman was sitted and provoking her with words and actions

A cringe worthy behaviour for a role model

If she could do that in broad daylight with the public and press, I can only imagine what she would've done while she was in office and behind closed doors

You see, your hardwork, money, connections and skill can take you up but a bad attitude can be the end of you. Not just you, your spouse, kids, family, everyone around you. 

How do you carry yourself?

You think it doesn't matter?

Well yesterday helped to show otherwise 

We all laughed at Patience Jonathan's use of English, yet greatly loved by the Nigerian people as no one could fault her character and carriage 

If all you want is to eat, sleep and wake up, by all means remain the way you are but if you want to be on the spotlight or think you'd  be there someday,then you must become refined. Look the part, act the part, show empathy, control your emotions, check your anger, mind how you eat, talk, walk in public..... You just have to be the part

Isn't that the major reason why the Obamas are loved and Trump hated inspite of all his wonderful policies and actions?

It may not be physical oh but if you go up without measuring up to the position, life will give you a Tawaiii.