MADNESS!

As hubby drove we just kept arguing, ohhhhhh for whatever reason, i was beyond vexed, i was livid. I wanted to eat him up alive and for the love of God, today, i can't even remember what we were arguing about
I was so mad, i asked him to stop the car
Opened the pigeon hole, counted some of his cool cash and got down from the car
Took the next available transport to a hotel and checked in
I'm very sure hubby was flabbergasted at my behaviour

He let me be and went home given that we had a bit of construction going on in our house that he needed to supervise
By evening he called to ask where i was cos he wanted bringing me dinner (smart guy)
I knew i was in for a treat but i had to do the some small shakara as the Queen that i am. This was the longest we've ever stayed before resolving any issue

Some other time, we were in the company of another couple going for a hang out and in the course of the discuss, hubby made a comment that got to me so i clicked the mute button on my lips
One look from the mirror as he drove, and he said 'Baby, i'm sorry'
'You know your comment hurt me right?' I replied
'Yes. I'm very sorry' he said
The couple with us were so surprised we just had an issue and how quickly we resolved it

How does your love interest treat you when they are at their low moments? Scream, abuse, resort to violence or find peaceful ways to go through whatever issue it is?
Do you look out for each other even in the midst of anger or disagreements?
No relationship is filled with all time highs and butterflies

Everyone cannot be as calm as hubby and i in handling issues but no matter the case, a person who loves and respects you would never see low moments as a time to attack their partner. He/she should be able to show maturity and some semblance of control over their emotions
Hurtful and harsh words cannot be forgotten or taken back when spoken
Violence is a no no
But peaceful resolution always wins the day
Anything short of this ought to be a very huge reason to give such relationship a reconsideration

ABUSE OF ANY FORM IS A NO NO

Comments

  1. WazagaApril 20, 2022 at 11:00 PM

    This comment has been removed by the author.

    ReplyDelete
  2. WazagaApril 20, 2022 at 11:01 PM

    That day you argued with the kek3 driver and thought he wanted to cheat you abi? Lols

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

The Happie boys show!

Image
Two Chicken Republic security guards have become internet sensation overnight.  For whatever reason, boredom, entertainment of customers or just for the sake of being happy, they chose to dance on their duty post. This was recorded and posted online; Happie boys right? Consequence; By the end of the day their dance video had gone viral, consequent upon, they got fired. Reactions; People began condemning the drastic action of their employer on social Result ; The duo due to the publicity, began getting crazy number of followers on their social media pages, endless gifts from their overnight fans, to State Governors giving cash gifts, job offers and even scholarships have been offered. Lesson for today: Sometimes doors are shut in our faces and for sure it would hurt. Worst still these doors might be to people or places where you've given you best and your all, only to be kicked to the curb. Well, as seen from the example of the Security Guards, that disappointment you
Read more

God, abeg break my bone and leave my phone!

Image
Did I just hear crrrrraaacccck? Dear Lord please please let this cup pass over me As I fell down the stair, bodily harm was the very least of my concerns  You know how much it cost me I deprived myself of alot of things I was hurrying to pick something outside The new Samsung phone I just got last week was in my back pocket When forces of darkness pushed me and I fell down a stair How else can one explain this if not enemies that are after my life? My mind was already calculating the cost of changing screen Hey God! You know I've been a good and kind person from childhood  Don't allow this evil happen to your child Your beloved obedient daughter A silent tear ran down my cheek as I slowly lifted myself off the floor  I was on my feet but It felt like I had spaghetti for legs My stomach was doing a million flip Gently, very gently I brought out the phone Heeeeyyyyyyyyyy it was the phone case that cracked My miracle working God showed up strong for me Headed straight
Read more

PEOPLE LOVE BAD NEWS!

Image
People love bad news People love to hear bad news about others And yes, people love to spread bad news about others! Nigerian Actress Angela Okorie has been online ranting, from one person to the other. This person is bad, The other person is a killer Today it's Mercy Johnson and her mother who are witches and turn people into goat. Someone you claim to have been close to? Everybody around you is bad and you're the only good one? Sometimes people try to trash talk another because they either feel intimidated, are envious, or feel they're in some form of competition. It's only a handful of times that you get the truth. You talk trash about people and say it's boldness and you're calling them out with your full chest? What evidence do you have that Mercy Johnson's mum turned people to goat while she was alive? How many people did you know she turned to goat? What did you do with this knowledge? Aren't you an accomplice then for keeping quiet? T
Read more