Na by force to marry?

During my NYSC days, I served in a law firm

My Boss here dealt with alot of Divorce cases and hmmmmm you'd be surprised at how many people go through this divorce thing and their reasons for wanting it but one of the topmost reasons asides infidelity is where spouses stand in the way of their partners from making progress

Noooo it's not a spiritual thing

I mean actions, inactions, attitudes and hurdles that spouses set up for their partners

How do you get married to a person and deep down you either aren't happy at what they do or your attitude cost them what they do?

There was a case of one who's wife was just a mindless spender

He'd tried setting her up several times and she successfully ran the businesses down, wants the latest of everything, always impress the gang. The man started hiding his businesses, finance, every money dealings from her until he couldn't stand it anymore 

How about the man who just few days after the wedding told the wife 'Ehen, now you're legally my wife and you'd learn to do things my way. No more trousers in this house, you're changing your circle of friend and your phone, in short this school you're pursuing, you know the certificate is useless because no wife of mine would go working for any man, that's how prostitution starts".... This was a very beautiful and intelligent business lady who was schooling. He knew everyone about her, chose to marry her and turn her into a doormat, a complete shadow of what she used to be

Why marry a person whose lifestyle, job, career goals, dreams, visions and aspirations you do not support only for you to begin finding ways to discourage or frustrate them

Find the person who shares same value as you and stay with them!

Mr/Miss transformer no dey find who you go frustrate.