Broken hearted Dears.

I had become a shadow of myself.

Gradually, i metamorphosized into a lady i couldn't recognize.

The cruel words

The lack of attention

Swallowing everything just to please him and remain termed as 'the good girl'.

I convinced myself and resigned to fate that it was best to just stay put in the relationship because one never knew what was out there.

Five years later i stumble into him and there he was bragging about the car he just bought.

Hahahaha, well well well, i smiled and was happy and went home thanking God for the strength to have left that hell of a relationship and choosing me.

The said car model he just bought happened to the same one hubby used in teaching me how to drive and there i was with my brand new third ride.

Oh yes, true happiness isn't based upon material things but then, materially, emotionally and otherwise i was beyond happy.

That encounter made me appreciate myself more, my new life more, my hubby more, my kids and everything i had.

See, some disappointments turn out to be God's greatest blessing in disguise.

Yes you gave your all to that relationship; money, time, your body and more, only to end up with a breakup.

Yes you swallowed so much and never envisaged your future without that person, yet...

If i hadn't let go of that disaster of an ex, how would i have met the beautiful soul of a husband that i'm married to today?

Yes, you're very much allowed to cry but trust that it can only get better for you!