And that's the way it is...

Four years relationship and he walks in on her making out with another person.

Three years relationship and she stumbles on a Facebook post of him getting married.

How about those who have spent years with a person, only to discover their partner is married with kids?

Ohhhhh should we talk about those who sponsored their partners through school, only to be dumped upon graduation.

Same applies to those whose spouse picked up and set up and they turned around when they felt they had arrived.

How about being together for years, abortions and all, then when he wanted to get married he remembered you weren't his tribe, you were dark skinned, you weren't a virgin...

Hmmmmmmm relationship is a dicey affair.

It may not begin and end the way one planned but there's an underlying factor that is universal no matter what and that is 'Empathy'.

The way you treated that person before you left, the way you ended that relationship, or the way you used that guy or lady, would you want to be served in the same manner?

Well the laws of nature still exists.

The same measure with which you have given...

Do not be the reason a person becomes broken or turns into a beast.