Put yourself first; she should be thanking God
As you can imagine all the ladies in the group didn't hold their tongues.
First, this marriage is a few months old as they just got married in January and as a young couple, one would suppose they'd be in their honeymoon phase where they can't get enough of each other but here she was online trying to wave her magic wand to wade off all the ladies.
Secondly I couldn't understand how this woman came about such an idea. If she was so emotionally charged, didn't she have friends around her to dissuade her from carrying out such an act?
Then to the main crux of the issue. Let's suppose she only came to the knowledge of his philandering lifestyle after they were married, what should've been her first course of action? RUN!
Run to the hospital to conducts every possible test to ensure he hasn't transfered an STD to you, and next, run away from such a man to your loved ones.
A man who's capable of having numerous number of girlfriends asides his just wedded wife is a calamity waiting to happen. Therefore, the best thing any sensible woman should do is to leave such a marriage.
Cheating of any form is not a thing that should be tolerated in any relationship. And if such should happen, one should be able to put him or herself and her wellbeing first. Don't go around fighting people. Hold your spouse accountable for their actions.
If they loved, cared and respected you enough, they'd have had no reason to cheat in the first place.
Stop going around trying to fight people off your partners. Let spouses be accountable to each other.
And love yourself enough to know when to take a walk.
What if her husband had infected her with HIV? We've seen so many of these kind of scenarios where the spouse got infected with HIV/AIDS kept mute and went about their lives, some even took treatment, only for their partners to find out much later that they've been infected.
If Madam loves herself, she should be taking God she found out not gathering people on social media.
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