Iya Basira dey disguise!

You should have principles, 

Etiquette, manners, yenyenyen

Don't do this

Don't do that

A million things on the list to do and not to do.

There's always a BUT oh!

Have you ever eaten a sumptuous meal that made you forget all your manners?

Well, I have!

The first day I went to be introduced to my parent-in-law, it was going all nice and smooth, everyone had a smile.

AND THEN FOOD WAS SERVED!!!

My Darling people, that was how yours truly forgot all her manners.

I ate the first plate as the fine girl guest that I was.

Then unfortunately for me My wonderful Mother-in-law decided to ask if I wanted more.

I doing the initial shakara until she said 'feel at home'.

That was how I placed my second order

Next thing, my home training was walking out of my bodyas I saw myself eating like a hoodlum.

My people, I really felt at home oh

See me spread out like the eagle by the time I was done.

It was at this point I understood Esau trading his birthright for a pot of pottage.

If not that God in heaven used unusual love to blind my in-laws, that's how one delicious meal would've ended my marriage before it began