It's all earned!
Recently I've come across people complaining of their significant other.
One was so outstanding because his wife cheated on him.
He caught her. Many pleas later, he claimed to have forgiven her and they both went about their lives to the point that people around them were even using their marriage as a model. Only to find that for over 15 years, the husband had been planning on how to leave his wife but first wanted to have all his kids by her, after which he divorced her and relocated.
My opinion will always be, when you find there's no more love, trust or loyalty in any relationship, there's no point hanging in there if you can't fight to rebuild it because in the end you become bitter, hurt and also pass it to your partner and you also end up wasting years that you both would've spent loving yourselves or finding love in new places.
Our generation today is almost looking like anything goes, but nothing can take the place these foundational virtues.
Nobody wants a person who cheats, who lies at will, who can't be accountable or invested in what you both share.
Be in a relationship if you want to be in it and if your heart isn't in it, moveeeeeee!
This can apply to every aspect of our lives as well.
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