What matters?
The story of a lady comes to mind.
She worked so hard with her husband and was able to move from our Naija 'to the abroad' which is a pretty laudable achievement.
18 years later, there's nothing to show but sorrows. Both partners are working, healthy, loving and caring, but different financial principles.
She does everything to save up for the home, manage their resources to match their needs as well as service their mortgage.
Her husband on the other hand will stop at nothing to buy flashing things, even at the expense of the family wellbeing, feeding and paying of utilities and more. From one fancy wrist watch, clothes, shoes, belts, sunglasses and more, to another without care for how the family will fare. He could spend the last of their resources and even take loans to finance his craving.
It's sweet to be in a relationship or marriage but the desperation to be in one shouldn't make us blind to things that are major red flags.
They might look negligible today but in the long run become magnified mountains that might lead to our end or the end of that relationship.
DO NOT BE IN A HURRY AND OVERLOOK THINGS.
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